Friday, 28 May 2010

tips for husband (wife bleh apply juge).. tp sy x kawin lagi.. haha

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that the Prophet would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (R.A). It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those hadith when the Prophet would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet would race with his wife Aisha (R.A) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger : 'The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.' Try to be the best!

Sunday, 23 May 2010

pok pok pok

hari ni, entry tepuk debu.. mak ai.. blog penuh ngan debu, sarang labah2.. sarang anai2 pon bleh ade, kalo blog ni kayu.. lantaklah engkau malware.. hr tu, che yah ade tny blog ni ade masalah lg ke? bkn lg, che yah, tp, masih.. tuan dia endah x endah je ngan blog ni haa.. x lame lg, nk celeb 4th birthday.. so, wahai blog, sy mahu kamu taw.. sy masih sygkn kamu.. blog ni, xde masalah.. tuan blog yg ade masalah.. jeng jeng jeng..

Pagi td g london, xde ape yg best melainkan free lunch.. wakaka (gile dah).. exam lg 6 hari.. tp budak bertuah ni, study x study je.. dia x igt mak dia ni.. dia x kesian kat mak dia kot, sbb tu dia mcm ni.. mak, maaf (_ _)

skrg dah nk masuk summer.. mak aii.. panas gile! blom balik msia lg tuh~ bkn nk blagak la.. tp siyes mmg panas.. sebut pasal balik.. entry dlu dah btaw psl duit x ckop nk beli tiket.. now pon.. still.. x ckop gk.. haiishhhh

*off to shower*